First of all, the Dutch women are honest. Not a bit honest, try deadly honest. Cause us Dutch women will tell you the truth. We just say things like they are.
So this means we could love you till death, but still want to hang on to our own house when we move in together. This has nothing to do with not having faith; this is just us, always wanting to be independent. Maybe this sounds very strange to you, but for us as women, it makes sense. So just learn to deal with it.