College relationships are complicated.
Arguably the most complicated of all, however, are hookups. At the time of getting into a no-strings attached relationship, you probably thought that the idea sounded fun and easy.
Once you realize that your life has not become a romantic comedy, though, you might change your mind. Even asking when the last time the sheets were washed — something you seriously want to know — can seem intimidating.
Here are a few things we want to have the courage to say — and should! Wade explains, not defining the relationship can cause awkward issues later on.
I told him no, and then we stopped hooking up. Sit down and have the talk. Despite our best attempts at keeping emotions out of the way, the fact is that sex is intimate, and it can be harder than we think to not get attached. Maybe you originally thought you wanted a carefree, no-strings-attached relationship.