And once you have it, theres nothing exciting left. It may turn into a serious relationship leading to marriage, kids etc, etc.
Next thing you at the sink in an apron or at church singing Kumbaya my lord, lol.
Most likely reason is you were a simple conquest — a notch. Men like the feeling of power and they take your most valuable and priceless treasure — you! Alternatively, you may not be very good at sex therefore there is no reason to call back.
If the later is the case, learn to be better. Will she be dirtier, will she be better looking? I suppose the analogy would be why do women need another pair of shoes. He says all the right words, does all the right things, and you decide to sleep with him a little more quickly than normal because you feel oh-so comfortable around him.
Then guess what happens?
He stops calling you. At first you feel rejected. Then you feel used. And then you let all your crazed emotional states get the better of you, and you start to talk to your friends about this whole debacle, over and over again. You review every little thing that went down with this new guy: Honestly … what a waste of time. How many times are you going to go down this road and realize that this is a road you should never go down again?
A road you should never have gone down after the first time? Which road is that?
You made that choice to sleep with him, and after that time, or after a few times, he did not call you anymore. He made that choice not to call you. So, now you have to ask yourself: You should be happy to find out so early that all he was after was sex, because you deserve somebody who wants to emotionally connect with you at whatever level you want.
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Get our newsletter every Friday! He mumbled at the end and didn't say 'I'll text/call you' so I said ' I'll see If he didwhy did he genuinely, intellectually tried to impress me, So I'm in a vulnerable position, susceptible to get hurt, as you can see I'm worried over my unanswered text.