Basically I want to get to the next level in my career where I can work for myself for the rest of my life.
Avoid at all costs. Meeting women for sex think for guys physical attraction in a hook-up is The Most Important Thing. My standards here are kind of whatever. What I look for is someone who seems relaxing and fun to be around. Talk to women on dating sites like you are talking to a girl who is already your friend.
Ask about common interests. If a girl wants sex she will ask you to hang out at your home or hers vs. The whole thing can take less than 5 minutes. Do whatever you need to do to seem like a person YOU would want to drink a glass of wine with and fool around for a few hours.
Remember that for women this means being personable, not bragging about your dick size or sex skills. The best thing a guy can do is just level with me and email me from his real email. Be the normal, fun guy you are with your friends.